Red, Blue and White! No, It’s not Fourth of July…
October 14, 2009 at 3:33 am | In 4-H, Family, Kids, New Mexico, Projects, State Fair | 3 CommentsA white ribbon! It was pure white! I’ve never seen a white fair ribbon before. And it came with what? H’s 4H cloth banner, which we had deemed ‘did not win anything’, though I would have given him a blue ribbon for effort!
There was a long line of cars waiting to enter the fair grounds. Everyone was waiting to pick up their exhibits in that one hour window.
“We’re not moving,” said hubby.
So I got down, with the girls and walked towards the entrance, bypassing the cars. Apparently, that’s what some people did too, and as we walked towards the Veteran’s building, some people were walking towards the entrance with their exhibits. It was quite an interesting sensation, because as we passed by some people, I happened to notice a familiar exhibit we saw during the fair, held by its owner, a boy. It was as if we have become familiar with the exhibits such that it was quite exciting to see who the owners were.
when we got inside the Veteran’s building, people were standing in line waiting to get their exhibits back. I patted my jilbab pocket and slipped my hand in to make sure I had the tag no. for the exhibits. As we were standing in line, I caught sight of a lady holding a clear plastic plate, lined with white paper doily, on which was her baked good, and all of that inside a small ziploc.
Baked goods?! They still have it? I thought, and a surge of excitement ran through me.
I was pretty devastated, well, maybe that was a little dramatic, but I was quite sad to have had miss the Bakesale that Wednesday evening, the day we submitted our baked goods at the fair. I had wanted to snap photos of our baked goods with the ribbons and all. I thought I was never going to see those cakes and cookies with the blue ribbons attached.
So, as soon as we got the kids’ exhibits, I asked the lady in charge of baked goods where the baked goods were, and she pointed me to another section of the building. Lo and behold, on the table were laid all the baked goods, the samples plated on those little clear plastic plate lined with white doily and enclosed in small ziplocs. We looked for ours and found them.
Finally, we saw our baked goods with blue and red ribbons attached to them! Well, more like stapled, but yippee! To top it off, on myBanana cake was also attached a bigger blue ribbon, one of those ‘fancy ones’ S had coveted during the fair day and also an envelope wielding a check! I had won Best of Lot. Alhamdulillah!
With our arms full, we walked back to the entrance, but saw hubby driving the van towards us. It was during our drive back home that we discovered that H had placed third for his 4-H cloth banner. A white ribbon.
Apparently, the string to which the ribbon was tied to was long enough that when it hung off the yarn that hung the banner, the ribbon was hidden behind the banner. I remember even looking at the photos I took of the banner at the fair and couldn’t remember seeing a ribbon. Well, we looked and scrutinized the photos again and finally we did notice the vertical string. Subhanallah…so the kids won ribbons for everything they entered in the fair. Alhamdulillah…
Blue, Red and White ribbons. Flying colors…
Blue Ribbons for All!
October 2, 2009 at 8:38 pm | In 4-H, Baking, Community, Family, Homeschooling, Kitchen, New Mexico, Projects, Sewing, State Fair | 4 CommentsOur schooling got put on hold (well, depends on what you define schooling as though) the past few days because we were busy whipping up baked goods for the state fair. As we had decided weeks ago, the kids were to do their practice baking individually before Eid, and then the actual baking for the fair days before the fair. Though S decided to make Dixie Pixies for the fair instead, because making the Meringue Bubbles turned out to be more work than she had bargained for.
On Monday, we went to the fairgrounds and submitted the kids’ 4-H projects for the non-livestock exhibits. I had hubby drive us there because I wasn’t familiar with the road and it involved going on the interstate (and I hate highways) so that come Wednesday, I could drive by myself. We saw a lot of great youth entries, mashaallah!
That same Monday, S made her Dixie Pixie dough and refrigerated it, while N made her butterscotch brownies. We had gone out that Monday morning though, so there was only like a few hours for both girls to bake their stuff. When I came down from my much needed nap, N was pouring her brownie batter into the pan lined with waxed paper hanging over the sides. I told her to scrape all the batter off and replace the waxed paper with aluminum foil, which H claimed to be ‘finished’. This boy searches with his mouth rather than his eyes. But by the time she was done doing that, there was no time left for her to bake it in the oven before we had to go to the fairgrounds to submit the 4H project items, so I told her to refrigerate it and bake it when we come home. That she did, and alhamdulillah that turned out ok. Otherwise, she’d have to bake it again the next day.
Tuesday, H started making his cookies after Fajr, and so did I, with my Pandan Chiffon and Cordon Rose Banana Cake. S also baked her Dixie Pixies. I was completely exhausted that day, as I not only baked one of each type of cake, but two; one for us and one for the fair. At first i decided not to bake the second banana cake becuase I was too tired, but if I didn’t I’d have to bake it the next day, right after Fajr. I thought of the hassle that would produce, as we had planned to leave for the fair around 8:30 a.m. So I ended up baking both banana cakes that day. Alhamdulillah I did.
We had spent Monday morning shopping around for a container for my Chiffon. That brought us to a cake store I came upon on google; Create a Cake. It offers cake decorating classes too. I emailed some moms in town about this in case they are interested for their girls, and a fellow homeschooling family expressed interest. Sv. called the store and told me that the class is a 4 week series, for $35 but the decorating tools are $25 and the book is $5. That would mean about $60 per child. Just yesterday, I called Hobby Lobby and found out that their cake decorating classes, by Wilton are cheaper, so I signed the girls up along with their friend My. As for S, she also attended the Off the Wall two part quilting session, pretty last minute yesterday, along with her friend My.
I was fasting that Monday and I just decided to use a foil pizza pan and wrap the chiffon in plastic wrap instead of driving around town to continue looking for cake containers that are tall enough to accomodate a Chiffon. So on Tuesday, that’s what I did, and oh boy, how ugly it looked. But since the fair will not return the containers we put our baked goods in, it makes good sense (at least to me) to send in such an economical solution.
While I was folding the egg whites into my egg yolk batter for the Chiffon, S stood by and asked questions. So I showed her the folding technique that is meant to minimize air loss in the batter, for Chiffons depend on the air whipped into the egg whites to rise, and if you mess that up, you will not get a Chiffon. It is also important to have the egg whites pure from any yolks, for if there are, it won’t beat up to stiff or soft peaks. Chemistry lesson right there. I wish some chemistry experiments in high school involved baking. That would have been scrumptious!
By evening, we were all done. Then N had to exercise some clumsiness. While trying to move the containers in which they had nicely arranged their cookies, she managed, yes, she managed to drop both hers and H’s. Result: H’s Pecan Shortbread Melts broke in unsalvageable crumbs! H at the time was at soccer practice. I was not too happy either, because I knew how hard H had worked on that, which included chopping the pecans very finely. Let’s just say I was very very very frustrated at N’s lack of care (not just in this, but almost any other time) in doing things (anything except her drawing).
When H came home, of course he wasn’t very happy either. But he got over it pretty quickly and decided to put some pieces that are broken (not whole, but missing some parts) to replace the completely destructed ones. He didn’t want to make another batch. To be honest, I wouldn’t have wanted to either. So, for sure, we though he was not going to win a blue or any ribbon for that one. What a shame…Qadr Allah.
Wednesday arrived, and we followed our planned schedule. We also brought along My, S’ homeschool friend. We had partly packed our backpack Tuesday night, so Wednesday morning was not that hectic alhamdulillah. The drive to the fair was alhamdulillah fine and dandy, despite my abhorrence for highways.
“Make sure you read your duas, kids!” was my reminder everytime we go out, but that day, it was especially emphasized.
Hubby had also recently bought S a cellphone, which is only to be used for calling him in cases of emergencies or urgent needs. So I felt a little better having that with us, because I don’t have one, and don’t really wish to have one.
H, N and I walked to the Special Events Building to submit our baked goods, and we left S, My and sleeping Baby Z in the van, parked on the Carnival grounds. It was not till later that I realized I had parked in the wrong area! I thought I was following the man’s instructions, and with puzzlement wondered why the heaven he’d tell me to park on the carnival grounds. Apparently, I was supposed to drive further up front and then turn right to a parking lot for the Special Events building. So H, N, and I had to walk quite some ways with baked goods in our arms to the Special Events building.
Subhanallah, there were a lot of entries! A table was loaded with decorated cakes by youth, by high schoolers actually, and they were just amazing! Mashaallah!
As I signed the kids’ baked goods up, the lady in charge asked,
“Your husband works for the extension?”
“Yes,” I said as I continued to fill in the forms. She probably recognized it from the kids’ last names.
“I’m G. I work with him, he’s our extension person.”
And it turned out that most of the people in charge of the Baked Goods section are the extension people working with hubby.
We spent the morning browsing the fairgrounds. Our first stop was the Super Scientific Circus show. I love it because tricks were performed but he also explained the scientific reasons behind it. He also showed us how to make a boomerang from a pizza box.
Our next stop was the petting zoo. Baby Z was kissed repeatedly by a very friendly Llama. He was not too happy about it.
Our plan was to roam the fairgrounds until the judges were finished judging the baked goods, at 1 pm. Since I had TQ class at 3:30 pm that afternoon, I had to leave the latest by 2 pm anyway. We ate our snacks, whom S had prepared the night before; amsll ziploc bags of banana cake and Chiffon, Baby Z’s pancakes and bananas, and of course our water canteens.
We went to the Veteran’s Building, where they had the exhibits. Lo and behold, subhanallah, S and N’s picture frame were awarded ribbons!
S got a blue ribbon and N got a red ribbon(second place). H didn’t get anything.
I felt pretty bad about it because I know how hard he worked on that cloth banner.
We went to the 4H building too and saw some great items done under 4H projects by the 4Hers. More ideas for the kids. I love those exhibits as they also gave me and the kids ideas of what to enter in the next year’s state fair, as well as what to make for their science and history projects. In fact, I took N and walked with her along the exhibits, showing her some displays or projects to give her some ideas for her Science and History projects, which she was having some trouble with.
That day, I also learned a lot about wool spinning and weaving. RIght outside the 4H building was a booth and sheep pen. Two ladies were spinning yarn, and they beckoned us to come so we did. I ended up learning a whole lot about the whole process of weaving, spinning.
- First, the sheep is sheared
- Then she’d hand pick the dirt, grass from the freshly sheared wool
- She would wash them on a special screen submerged in a big tub of water, but has to be careful not to aggravate them too much or they will turn into felt
- Then she’d dry them on that screen
- It’s then carded so the fibers all run in the same direction (we stopped by a booth of the Farm and Heritage Museum and the kids actually tried carding some wool with the combs. It was NOT easy!)
- The dry wool would then be spun into yarn on the spinning wheel. It would take her about 1-2 hours to fill the bobbin
- The yarn can then be woven into a shawl
She told me about a competition called Sheep to Shawl where they would work as a team. The sheep would be sheared and they would skip the washing and drying stages and jump straight to the spinning stage and then weaving. According to these ladies, it takes 5 people to hand pick the dirt from the freshly sheared wool, and 5 spinners to keep up with one weaver. I can only imagine how the competition goes. It must be nerve wrecking but amazing to watch! Maybe something like Iron Chef.
These ladies also told us about wool’s itch factor. it depends on the wool itself, but sometimes, if the wool was processed commercially, where acid is used to clean and dissolve the dirt as opposed to the dirt being handpicked, the resulting sweater then becomes itchy. That was a precious information that was very interesting to me. I love that visit to that booth!
We stopped by some NMSU’s Science exhibit buildings too where the kids got themselves some astronomy posters and brochures. Then we went back to the exhibit building to wait for the baked goods to be done judged and put on display. When 1 pm arrived and no one from the Special Events building seem to be entering the Veteran’s building, I sent H to peek inside the Special Events building to see if they were done judging. He came back and told me there were only a few people there and they seemed to be done judging. I couldn’t afford to wait any longer since we had to leave soon, so I went with H to the building. We appraoched the adult baked goods table first, and to my surprise, I saw a blue sticker on my Chiffon.
I then looked for my banana cake and subhanallah, another blue sticker!
As we approached the youth baked goods area, a lady hailed me,
“Hello!”
It was another of hubby’s colleague whom I had met and been introeduced to when we first moved here. I had actually talked to her over the phone before we moved. Hubs had referred me to her to ask questons about housing in this town. She was very helpful mashaallah. She apparently has been to Jordan a lot of times and is quite familiar with Muslims and Islam. May Allah guide her. Ameen.
Well, it turned out that she and another of hubby’s colleague, whom H said we had run across in Albertson’s a few days ago (and said to hub that she thought he has 6 children – me included as one of his kids. Don’t know whether to take that as a compliment or insult, but I think I’ll take it as the former) were just done judging the baked goods for the youth. So we looked for the kids’ baked goods. Again, subhanallah, it seemed to be blue ribbon days for all of us! Alhamdulillah! H’s broken Pecan Shortbread Melts got a blue sticker!
N’s brownies got a blue (well, they had put yellow because they had run outof blue stickers) sticker!
And so did S’ Dixie Pixies!
H’s Double Chunk Choc Chip cookies got a red sticker! It was a multiple win!
And to think the kids had been reluctant to enter any baked goods in the fair when I suggested it. I had to coax them.
“Just enter. You guys bake a lot anyway. Why don’t you just enter. You never know, you might win.”
Alhamdulillah they did!
And to also think that I was quite iffy about entering anything either! Alhamdulillah I did end up making the Chiffon and Banana Cake. It was a Blur Ribbon day.
The only downside to all of this was that they were only going to put the baked goods on display later on that day, which meant that we were not going to see them displayed because we had to leave early. So I snapped pictures before we left. No blue ribbons. I guess blue and yellow stickers would just have to do!
We also didn’t get to hop on any rides in the Carnival because they won’t open till 5 pm that day. I emailed hubby, suggesting that he might want to go with the kids later on that day, and take pictures of the baked goods on display and so the kids could attend the carnival too, but at the mention that he’d have to pay for the tickets again, he said no. I figured as much, so unfortunately, the kids didn’t get to ride on any of the carnival rides. Alhamdulilllah either way.
Well, alhamdulillah for everything. I guess, we will continue to ‘dabble’ with the state fairs from now on. 12 years in the US and I never once bothered about state fairs. Interesting how 4H led us to it, and for our first involvement, it was a pretty good turn out! Walhamdulilah, wallahu akbar!
Eid Gift-ing
September 16, 2009 at 1:48 pm | In Art, Community, Eid, Family, Kids, Projects, Ramadan | Leave a CommentThis year, somehow, we’re caught in the whirlwind of buying children’s eid gift for the masjid. I didn’t plan for this, and I had hoped to avoid shopping in Ramadan especially the last 10 days, but I got sucked into it. But I’m done with it as of yesterday alhamdulillah. I consider it part of our general ibadah inshaallah, so may Allah accept it from us. Ameen.
Our closet under the staircase is filled with toys and gifts for the kids at the masjid. Our next challenge now is to figure out how to present these gifts. There are about 50 kids. Yesterday, after coming home from the doctor’s (s and N are sick) I went to Dollar Tree to look for an economical solution to this. Hubby is against it completely. He said,
“Just write their names on their toys like they did last year.”
But I’m thinking ‘ihsaan’. When you want to present a gift to someone, you don’t just give it ‘raw’, do you? So I came home with no solution unfortunately yesterday.
But after voicing out my empty idea bank, S came up with some ideas. Use fabric. Our scraps of fabric that have been stashed forever. I also googled alternative gift wrapping, and came up with a wealth of information and ideas!
I particularly am taken by Furoshiki. Reminds me Oshin and Kaoru during my childhood. Malaysian may know what I’m talking about if you’re reading this. *smile*
10 Ideas for Pretty Alternative Wrapping by Mighty Girl, I just came across today, but she has a lot of great cute ideas too!
This cereal boxes idea is great too, though for our purpose and scope (which is 50 gifts to wrap!) this won’t do.
And I just LOVE this. Thanks EnviroMOM! This is what we started doing yesterday, and the girls LOVE it! S wraps the gifts, cuts fabric strips into ribbons, and N makes the name cards,
tied with a yarn to the wrapped gifts. When hubs came back, we told him, and he told us to come up with color coding for the different age groups.
So by Isha, S came up with the color coding by the ribbons. Rainbow is for ages 1, 2, 3. Checkered is for ages 4, 5, 6. Green is for ages 7,8,9. Yellow stripes is for ages 10,11, 12 and above. Pretty good mashaallah. We decided to wrap the girls’ gifts with cloth and the boys, just with ribbons, since, (quoting S)
“They don’t really care anyway.”
Ay (our friend from Columbus who recently moved here) gave us a bag of beautiful scarfs and hijabs, and we actually utilized this yesterday in our gift wrapping activity. Especially for the bigger girls. Two-in-one kind of thing! Alhamdulillah!
I love this going green thing! So do the kids, apparently, as they started resuming the wrapping activity right after they are done with our Ramadan lesson for today.
Welcome to 4-H Project Activities
September 8, 2009 at 2:55 pm | In 4-H, Art, Homeschooling, New Mexico, Projects, Sewing | Leave a CommentThere are so many terms in 4-H and even to this day, after asking questions so many times, again and again, I am still not ‘down with it’. This year, we’re somewhat ‘forced’ to pay attention to the state fair because in order for the kids to complete a 4-H project, they have to exhibit it in the fair. So here we are right now, scrambling to finish up their projects before Eid.
H chose to do the banner. S and N chose to do the frame. I was kind of expecting the girls to do the banner, but as I asked them again and again if, they keep shaking their heads. So, we went shopping at Hobby Lobby and Jo Ann to get their materials. Before that of course I had to do a lot of ‘researching’ about the state fair to see the requirements etc. Either way, now were’ at the stage of completing the project items, alhamdulillah.
I asked them to design how their embellished frames would look like, and banner too, so they don’t waste the materials and make undoable mistakes.
For H, we ended up googling for images of banners, and can you believe how difficult it is to come across any? I mean, we did come across some, but not the ones we had in mind. But we finally came across some nice ones on flickr and got some ideas for H’s. We also got some ideas if we want to make an Eid banner this year. Quite pretty too. Now it’s up to the girls to make them though. S didn’t seem to enthusiastic about it though.
We didn’t want to buy fabric, so I told H to choose one from the everlasting stash we’ve hoarded over the years. We had to buy some felt though, for his circles. For the clover, H used the heart stencils and made a cardboard template and then cut one out from a green fabric that used to be S’ flat bedsheet. Recycle, recycle.
H had to undo his stitches couple of time, and it quite frustrated him I think, but we got over that stage alhamdulillah.
Then we also had to look up how to do blanket stitches. In the beginning I tried to recall how to do it, but I forgot even how to start! So we went to S and asked her. She fumbled too, because when she did it, it was to sew the seams, not as a finishing edge. So, we googled it and found a video on Youtube. I showed H how to do it and then the took over. He intently connected all his circles and by Zuhr, he was done. Next step is to sew them on the banner.
As for S, she was experimenting on a mosaic design for her box frame top (upon my suggestion). 

S wanted to make a mosaic of the New Mexico state flag, but it turned out to be too tedious I suppose
N still hadn’t yet started, except for a design. It took quite a lot of work on my part too to oversee their projects! But it was quite fun. I think I derive energy from doing creative-based things. All the time, I reminded them that they still have to demonstrate something to the club, something related to the projects.
For now, H is going to demonstrate, possibly, how to do blanket stitches. S is going to demonstrate how to create a mosaic design, or how to stencil. And N is going to demonstrate how to create a four leafed clover from heart stencils.
As for me, I just want this to be over with because deep down I know they kids dno’t really like this Welcome to 4-H project, but the club leader had told me it was kind of a requirement if we want to be in the club (we had no choice because we enrolled late). I know the kids would have preferred to pick other projects they’re really interested in doing. So I kept telling them,
“That’s ok. Just let’s get this over with so next year you can choose projects that you really want to do.”
H was ready to quit, but I urged him on.
I think, getting them involved in 4-H would be good for their ‘homeschooling resume’ inshaallah, especially for colege applications, hopefully. Plus, it would hopefully also give them the experiences they wouldn’t normally get at home. For now, things are looking up in terms of their 4-H projects alhamdulillah. I hope next year will be better.
After this, I will probably be busy overlooking the completion of their individual record books. Alhamdulillah for that record book workshop on Oct 10. I hope we don’t miss that inshaallah.
Pink & Green?
April 22, 2009 at 6:16 pm | In Art, Family, Home Depot, Kids, New Mexico, Projects | 1 Comment
When only the drawers were painted
Last week was my spring break from Taleem Quran, and I told the kids that we would paint their dresser then. Alhamdulillah, they did it bit by bit, drawer by drawer. After Fajr,
they went out to the backyard, and sanded down their drawers.
They found out that it was a lot of work, but it was worth it, because the reward was: painting! When we went to Home Depot, we had our first experience purchasing paint. I have never purchased paint before, and so we asked one of the Home Depot guys lingering around the aisles.
We knew enough to look for paint that is to be used on wood, and when directed to the the particular aisle, we hunted the color the girls wanted; lime green and pink. There were none. So we asked again, and apparently, we had to choose paint color that was available on the card swatch, and they would mix it for us.
Choosing the exact tone and shade of green and pink took quite some time, as N had trouble deciding, much to S’s exasperation.
“What kind of finish do you want?” the man asked me, before he mixed the paint for us.
“Do we have to have one?”
You could tell how ignorant I was about the whole thing.
Sometimes, when you want to learn something, you just have to make a fool of yourself, and that was what I did.
“Flat or glossy?” he asked.
Alhamdulillah he was pretty patient with me.
“What’s the price difference?”
Of course, that was what mattered the most, because one can of paint costs about 10 bucks.
“Oh, not much, just about a dollar.”
I chose the flat, even if it was just about dollar. It was our first painting project and I didn’t want to spend too much on it.
So we went home and stored the paint can in the sunroom closet. They sat in there for weeks. So when my spring break came, it was high time we took the paint cans out and delved into our first ever painting/furniture refurbishing project. I was probably more excited about the project than they were, and I anticipated taking over the painting, as I used to do with every creative project they do.

Sanding the dresser
However, I know enough to leave them alone. Plus, I was busy with other things in the house, while they worked with their project in the backyard. The huge plastic our old neighbor in Columbus gave us proved useful as it became the ‘catch-all’ for the paint drips so that the bricked backyard was not marred by any paint splotches.
It took about a week, roughly, for the girls to finish painting their dresser. Since the sun is hot, the paint dried pretty quickly too. I had also checked out some books from the library on painting and projects. There was one technique called combing that looked very appealing. S didn’t want to do it though.
On the side of the dresser, she decided to paint stripes, and in the beginning she freehandedly painted the stripes. That led to my nag:
“Everything has difficulty. You choose which difficulty you want. Now you have to fix tha and repaint over it. The other difficulty is that you plan it beforehand, but afterwards, it becomes easy.”
Whenever a spill occurs, I tell them the same nag.
I think even hubby has absorbed the nag, when I told H,
“Wearing the gloves is kind of a hassle, but do you want to choose that difficulty, or do you want to deal with the difficulty of having very dry and cracked hands?”
It really is just a matter of choosing which difficulty to undertake. Though I’m sure they’re sick of that nag now.
We found that our hands and skins are very very dry here. A sister at the masjid said it’s because there is a lot of chlorine in the water and add the dryness to that. The kids’ skin look like old people’s skin!
So, when we brainstormed how to fix the unlevel stripe mistake onthe side of the dresser, S came up with the solution.
“Tape!”
So I helped them put tapes in even intervals, and after that, their stripe-painting was a breeze.
For the polka dots on top of the dresser, they had initally planned to use a carboard tube and make pink circles instead. But the day before, Baby Z had chewed on it and so the circle wasn’t quite circly. The girls had made a ‘blueprint’ of the dresser design, upon my instruction, way before we even bought the paint. But they had to change some things last minute, on the spot, due to several factors, including the chewed up cardboard tube. They had wanted to paint flowers on the drawers, but for now, maybe not yet.
All in all, it was a good project and learning experience for us all. H even helped them with the sanding. As for me, as I looked on at their beautiful refurbished dresser, I thought to myself,
I wish I had a dresser like that when I was a child.

All done!

Mashaallah! May we get something better in Jannah. Ameen!
Native Child Care Bags
April 1, 2009 at 2:35 pm | In Art, Community, Projects, Sewing | Leave a CommentCheck out Farhana’s blog: Sketched Soul, for the latest community/charity project!
It has been a while since we did anything in this arena what with the move and all, but I think inshaalllah we’re ready to get back in business in terms of charity work.
For the Sunday school, inshaallah, the sister teaching Islamic studies will have the girls participating in a homeless children project as part of a unit study on charity. They will also inshaallah do some gardening on masjid ground (hubby got some brothers to prepare the garden spot for them because the sister had trouble getting brothers to do it), and there was talk about them making over one room in the masjid via painting the walls. This is what S loves about the Sunday school. And mashaallah, the sisters are really working hard to make Sunday school interesting for them, mashaallah. That’s another reason I’m actually pumped up about teaching Sunday school too, though my problem is on how to help each child who cannot read the Quran fluently do so in a limited time, only once per week.
I was chatting with a friend a few days ago, and she was telling me how this problem (Muslim kids not knowing how to read Quran at all, or read it fluently) is a common problem for Muslims living in the west. Her husband is the principal for their Sunday school, and she said that since he took up the position (usually a voluntary one, especially for small towns, I think) they have been racking their brains trying to figure out a syllabus or something of the like to address that particular problem. And to this day, they still have not figured out a solution. No wonder I was bogged down with this the past few weeks. I was trying to figure out a way I can help each child individually in the allotted time while not wasting the time of those who already know how to read (fluently or not). There are about 7 girls, minus my daughters and there is only 1 hour. I debated whether to continue working with the current surah they are in or bring them back to the shorter suwaar since their pronunciations are not even correct. As for tafseer, I don’t think I will be doing it because I have been asking around for advice on that, and a knowledgeable and wise sister said to me,
“It’s always very tricky to start teaching just from any book without having first learnt from a teacher. I think you should verify whatever you read in ibn kathir also if it is authentic. Sometimes some things may not be.
InshaAllah once you are done with the evening course – in 3 years time you will be ready to share what you have learnt.”
I have yet to make istikharah as I was handicapped before and just got my praying privileges back, and on top of that there are other istikharahs I have had to make.
But for now it seems that I will not be doingthe tafseer I had originally intended to do, and upon a suggestion of another sister, I might (if I still want to give the girls a taste of tafseer) either have them listen to Touched By An Angel by Muhamad AlShareef, which is a brief elaboration on Juz ‘Amma, or I relay it to them. I only have about 15 minutes to do it anyway, so the issue of them being bored inshaallah will not come up. I even did an informal shura with S, and asked her,
“You think I should have them listen to that CD?”
She began to shake her head.
I made sure to tell her that it won’t be for an hour.
She paused and then nodded.
“Of all the speakers who do you like best?”
“Muhammad AlShareef,” she said.
“Why?”
“He makes jokes sometimes.”
“And he speaks properly.”
Ouch! That’s what happens when you have a child raised in the West. Even though they do not go to school, I notice that they have this tendency to want to listen to unaccented English. (Even though their own parents speak accented English). Or maybe that is the reason they want to listen to unaccented English. Sigh.
Anyway, back to the Native Child Care Bags. A fun way to attain some share of sadaqah jariyah.
Again, check out Farhana’s Sketched Soul, my favorite artsy blog.
Bot Craze!
March 25, 2009 at 2:02 am | In Amusing, Art, Kids, Projects | 5 CommentsWith an abundace of empty boxes, the kids were spurred into creative action. Using what they have, in our sunroom, which is now the official ‘project’ room, they created a line of BOt creations. N, the Bot designer, made a catalog of the many kinds of bots available for order, and together, S and N constructed these bots, all while I was busy cathing up my missed TQ classes. With no TV in the house, and no internet (at the time), they managed to utilize their time with something pretty much beneficial (it’s beneficial that they’re not moping around complaining that there was nothing to do).
When they showed me their catalog, I was very impressed. I couldn’t help smiling and laughing at some of the bots they designed, and even suggested more bots. However, this creative strike lasted only for a few days, as they tired of it, and moved on to other things, namely computer games, after we got internet.
Nevertheless, I will treasure their bots, as I always do their other creations. Even though I intend to put up pictures of our new place, this will take priority because it’s a record of their creativity. I’m still not too happy that it’s something animate (kind of), but I have yet to offer or suggest other halal alternatives.
So here we go, in reminiscence of the Uglies:

The craft area. What a blessing that we have this extra room where they can work on their projects and leave them overnight without messing up their rooms or the rest of the house. Alhamdulillah!

Ruboot and Heartbot standing on a stack of books that were still on the living room floor because we had yet to get bookcases. (Now we have, alhamdulillah)

Ruboot with his 'secret' compartment.

Rubix. He can roll.

The Bots having a party in the backyard, while I was attending my TQ class.

In the backyard

GirlBot in a tree

Heartbot in a tree

Candybot in a tree

Bakebot in a tree

Bots hanging out in the tree, apparently.

And then literally hanging out on the clothesline!
What a party!
Nimble Fingers
December 18, 2008 at 9:45 pm | In Art, Kids, Projects | Leave a Comment
Banana plants
Leave them to their own devices and this is what they do. I sure could use some of the dexterity in those little fingers. There were some clay/play dough lying around, and as usual, the kids are up to something on their own. Before I knew it, I saw a miniature tropical jungle, replete with food for the animals, including fast food (hot dogs), ponds, and individual leaves for the trees. I was pretty surprised. I seriously do not know where they got this dexterity from, for I can’t even crimp a Karipap without having it break open in hot oil. Alhamdulillah for whoever they got it from. It’s definitely not from me.
This was made eons ago. I owe this post. It’s long overdue…

Hot dogs in the middle of the jungle??

Bird's eye view



Of course like everything else, we had to eventually throw them away, but again, that’s the purpose hubby bought me this digital camera in the first place! Speaking of digital camera, it has become Baby Z’s toy, such that the battery cover is loose that we have to put a sticky tape to keep it shut. The babies of the 21st century…sigh…
The Roundabout Model
November 24, 2008 at 6:10 pm | In Art, Homeschooling, Projects | Leave a Comment
I should have posted this eons ago, but I got distracted. So, before posts pile up, I’d better get to this.
It all started on the day we were invited to the Indonesian Eid gathering at a park. An interest on roundabout was sparked on the way home (long story short).
So, the roundabout project was born, and the kids got to work, and I have yet to put up the proof of the end result of this project. But the beginnings of it can be seen here.
What else came from this impromptu project? Here.
By now, we no longer have the project, as we have thrown it away in the midst of decluttering, sometime last month. But, I am not completely stupid. I utilized the digital camera hubby had bought for me just for this purpose, and below are the proofs of the kids’ handiwork. I couldn’t be more delighted.
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