Red, Blue and White! No, It’s not Fourth of July…
October 14, 2009 at 3:33 am | In 4-H, Family, Kids, New Mexico, Projects, State Fair | 3 CommentsA white ribbon! It was pure white! I’ve never seen a white fair ribbon before. And it came with what? H’s 4H cloth banner, which we had deemed ‘did not win anything’, though I would have given him a blue ribbon for effort!
There was a long line of cars waiting to enter the fair grounds. Everyone was waiting to pick up their exhibits in that one hour window.
“We’re not moving,” said hubby.
So I got down, with the girls and walked towards the entrance, bypassing the cars. Apparently, that’s what some people did too, and as we walked towards the Veteran’s building, some people were walking towards the entrance with their exhibits. It was quite an interesting sensation, because as we passed by some people, I happened to notice a familiar exhibit we saw during the fair, held by its owner, a boy. It was as if we have become familiar with the exhibits such that it was quite exciting to see who the owners were.
when we got inside the Veteran’s building, people were standing in line waiting to get their exhibits back. I patted my jilbab pocket and slipped my hand in to make sure I had the tag no. for the exhibits. As we were standing in line, I caught sight of a lady holding a clear plastic plate, lined with white paper doily, on which was her baked good, and all of that inside a small ziploc.
Baked goods?! They still have it? I thought, and a surge of excitement ran through me.
I was pretty devastated, well, maybe that was a little dramatic, but I was quite sad to have had miss the Bakesale that Wednesday evening, the day we submitted our baked goods at the fair. I had wanted to snap photos of our baked goods with the ribbons and all. I thought I was never going to see those cakes and cookies with the blue ribbons attached.
So, as soon as we got the kids’ exhibits, I asked the lady in charge of baked goods where the baked goods were, and she pointed me to another section of the building. Lo and behold, on the table were laid all the baked goods, the samples plated on those little clear plastic plate lined with white doily and enclosed in small ziplocs. We looked for ours and found them.
Finally, we saw our baked goods with blue and red ribbons attached to them! Well, more like stapled, but yippee! To top it off, on myBanana cake was also attached a bigger blue ribbon, one of those ‘fancy ones’ S had coveted during the fair day and also an envelope wielding a check! I had won Best of Lot. Alhamdulillah!
With our arms full, we walked back to the entrance, but saw hubby driving the van towards us. It was during our drive back home that we discovered that H had placed third for his 4-H cloth banner. A white ribbon.
Apparently, the string to which the ribbon was tied to was long enough that when it hung off the yarn that hung the banner, the ribbon was hidden behind the banner. I remember even looking at the photos I took of the banner at the fair and couldn’t remember seeing a ribbon. Well, we looked and scrutinized the photos again and finally we did notice the vertical string. Subhanallah…so the kids won ribbons for everything they entered in the fair. Alhamdulillah…
Blue, Red and White ribbons. Flying colors…
Blue Ribbons for All!
October 2, 2009 at 8:38 pm | In 4-H, Baking, Community, Family, Homeschooling, Kitchen, New Mexico, Projects, Sewing, State Fair | 4 CommentsOur schooling got put on hold (well, depends on what you define schooling as though) the past few days because we were busy whipping up baked goods for the state fair. As we had decided weeks ago, the kids were to do their practice baking individually before Eid, and then the actual baking for the fair days before the fair. Though S decided to make Dixie Pixies for the fair instead, because making the Meringue Bubbles turned out to be more work than she had bargained for.
On Monday, we went to the fairgrounds and submitted the kids’ 4-H projects for the non-livestock exhibits. I had hubby drive us there because I wasn’t familiar with the road and it involved going on the interstate (and I hate highways) so that come Wednesday, I could drive by myself. We saw a lot of great youth entries, mashaallah!
That same Monday, S made her Dixie Pixie dough and refrigerated it, while N made her butterscotch brownies. We had gone out that Monday morning though, so there was only like a few hours for both girls to bake their stuff. When I came down from my much needed nap, N was pouring her brownie batter into the pan lined with waxed paper hanging over the sides. I told her to scrape all the batter off and replace the waxed paper with aluminum foil, which H claimed to be ‘finished’. This boy searches with his mouth rather than his eyes. But by the time she was done doing that, there was no time left for her to bake it in the oven before we had to go to the fairgrounds to submit the 4H project items, so I told her to refrigerate it and bake it when we come home. That she did, and alhamdulillah that turned out ok. Otherwise, she’d have to bake it again the next day.
Tuesday, H started making his cookies after Fajr, and so did I, with my Pandan Chiffon and Cordon Rose Banana Cake. S also baked her Dixie Pixies. I was completely exhausted that day, as I not only baked one of each type of cake, but two; one for us and one for the fair. At first i decided not to bake the second banana cake becuase I was too tired, but if I didn’t I’d have to bake it the next day, right after Fajr. I thought of the hassle that would produce, as we had planned to leave for the fair around 8:30 a.m. So I ended up baking both banana cakes that day. Alhamdulillah I did.
We had spent Monday morning shopping around for a container for my Chiffon. That brought us to a cake store I came upon on google; Create a Cake. It offers cake decorating classes too. I emailed some moms in town about this in case they are interested for their girls, and a fellow homeschooling family expressed interest. Sv. called the store and told me that the class is a 4 week series, for $35 but the decorating tools are $25 and the book is $5. That would mean about $60 per child. Just yesterday, I called Hobby Lobby and found out that their cake decorating classes, by Wilton are cheaper, so I signed the girls up along with their friend My. As for S, she also attended the Off the Wall two part quilting session, pretty last minute yesterday, along with her friend My.
I was fasting that Monday and I just decided to use a foil pizza pan and wrap the chiffon in plastic wrap instead of driving around town to continue looking for cake containers that are tall enough to accomodate a Chiffon. So on Tuesday, that’s what I did, and oh boy, how ugly it looked. But since the fair will not return the containers we put our baked goods in, it makes good sense (at least to me) to send in such an economical solution.
While I was folding the egg whites into my egg yolk batter for the Chiffon, S stood by and asked questions. So I showed her the folding technique that is meant to minimize air loss in the batter, for Chiffons depend on the air whipped into the egg whites to rise, and if you mess that up, you will not get a Chiffon. It is also important to have the egg whites pure from any yolks, for if there are, it won’t beat up to stiff or soft peaks. Chemistry lesson right there. I wish some chemistry experiments in high school involved baking. That would have been scrumptious!
By evening, we were all done. Then N had to exercise some clumsiness. While trying to move the containers in which they had nicely arranged their cookies, she managed, yes, she managed to drop both hers and H’s. Result: H’s Pecan Shortbread Melts broke in unsalvageable crumbs! H at the time was at soccer practice. I was not too happy either, because I knew how hard H had worked on that, which included chopping the pecans very finely. Let’s just say I was very very very frustrated at N’s lack of care (not just in this, but almost any other time) in doing things (anything except her drawing).
When H came home, of course he wasn’t very happy either. But he got over it pretty quickly and decided to put some pieces that are broken (not whole, but missing some parts) to replace the completely destructed ones. He didn’t want to make another batch. To be honest, I wouldn’t have wanted to either. So, for sure, we though he was not going to win a blue or any ribbon for that one. What a shame…Qadr Allah.
Wednesday arrived, and we followed our planned schedule. We also brought along My, S’ homeschool friend. We had partly packed our backpack Tuesday night, so Wednesday morning was not that hectic alhamdulillah. The drive to the fair was alhamdulillah fine and dandy, despite my abhorrence for highways.
“Make sure you read your duas, kids!” was my reminder everytime we go out, but that day, it was especially emphasized.
Hubby had also recently bought S a cellphone, which is only to be used for calling him in cases of emergencies or urgent needs. So I felt a little better having that with us, because I don’t have one, and don’t really wish to have one.
H, N and I walked to the Special Events Building to submit our baked goods, and we left S, My and sleeping Baby Z in the van, parked on the Carnival grounds. It was not till later that I realized I had parked in the wrong area! I thought I was following the man’s instructions, and with puzzlement wondered why the heaven he’d tell me to park on the carnival grounds. Apparently, I was supposed to drive further up front and then turn right to a parking lot for the Special Events building. So H, N, and I had to walk quite some ways with baked goods in our arms to the Special Events building.
Subhanallah, there were a lot of entries! A table was loaded with decorated cakes by youth, by high schoolers actually, and they were just amazing! Mashaallah!
As I signed the kids’ baked goods up, the lady in charge asked,
“Your husband works for the extension?”
“Yes,” I said as I continued to fill in the forms. She probably recognized it from the kids’ last names.
“I’m G. I work with him, he’s our extension person.”
And it turned out that most of the people in charge of the Baked Goods section are the extension people working with hubby.
We spent the morning browsing the fairgrounds. Our first stop was the Super Scientific Circus show. I love it because tricks were performed but he also explained the scientific reasons behind it. He also showed us how to make a boomerang from a pizza box.
Our next stop was the petting zoo. Baby Z was kissed repeatedly by a very friendly Llama. He was not too happy about it.
Our plan was to roam the fairgrounds until the judges were finished judging the baked goods, at 1 pm. Since I had TQ class at 3:30 pm that afternoon, I had to leave the latest by 2 pm anyway. We ate our snacks, whom S had prepared the night before; amsll ziploc bags of banana cake and Chiffon, Baby Z’s pancakes and bananas, and of course our water canteens.
We went to the Veteran’s Building, where they had the exhibits. Lo and behold, subhanallah, S and N’s picture frame were awarded ribbons!
S got a blue ribbon and N got a red ribbon(second place). H didn’t get anything.
I felt pretty bad about it because I know how hard he worked on that cloth banner.
We went to the 4H building too and saw some great items done under 4H projects by the 4Hers. More ideas for the kids. I love those exhibits as they also gave me and the kids ideas of what to enter in the next year’s state fair, as well as what to make for their science and history projects. In fact, I took N and walked with her along the exhibits, showing her some displays or projects to give her some ideas for her Science and History projects, which she was having some trouble with.
That day, I also learned a lot about wool spinning and weaving. RIght outside the 4H building was a booth and sheep pen. Two ladies were spinning yarn, and they beckoned us to come so we did. I ended up learning a whole lot about the whole process of weaving, spinning.
- First, the sheep is sheared
- Then she’d hand pick the dirt, grass from the freshly sheared wool
- She would wash them on a special screen submerged in a big tub of water, but has to be careful not to aggravate them too much or they will turn into felt
- Then she’d dry them on that screen
- It’s then carded so the fibers all run in the same direction (we stopped by a booth of the Farm and Heritage Museum and the kids actually tried carding some wool with the combs. It was NOT easy!)
- The dry wool would then be spun into yarn on the spinning wheel. It would take her about 1-2 hours to fill the bobbin
- The yarn can then be woven into a shawl
She told me about a competition called Sheep to Shawl where they would work as a team. The sheep would be sheared and they would skip the washing and drying stages and jump straight to the spinning stage and then weaving. According to these ladies, it takes 5 people to hand pick the dirt from the freshly sheared wool, and 5 spinners to keep up with one weaver. I can only imagine how the competition goes. It must be nerve wrecking but amazing to watch! Maybe something like Iron Chef.
These ladies also told us about wool’s itch factor. it depends on the wool itself, but sometimes, if the wool was processed commercially, where acid is used to clean and dissolve the dirt as opposed to the dirt being handpicked, the resulting sweater then becomes itchy. That was a precious information that was very interesting to me. I love that visit to that booth!
We stopped by some NMSU’s Science exhibit buildings too where the kids got themselves some astronomy posters and brochures. Then we went back to the exhibit building to wait for the baked goods to be done judged and put on display. When 1 pm arrived and no one from the Special Events building seem to be entering the Veteran’s building, I sent H to peek inside the Special Events building to see if they were done judging. He came back and told me there were only a few people there and they seemed to be done judging. I couldn’t afford to wait any longer since we had to leave soon, so I went with H to the building. We appraoched the adult baked goods table first, and to my surprise, I saw a blue sticker on my Chiffon.
I then looked for my banana cake and subhanallah, another blue sticker!
As we approached the youth baked goods area, a lady hailed me,
“Hello!”
It was another of hubby’s colleague whom I had met and been introeduced to when we first moved here. I had actually talked to her over the phone before we moved. Hubs had referred me to her to ask questons about housing in this town. She was very helpful mashaallah. She apparently has been to Jordan a lot of times and is quite familiar with Muslims and Islam. May Allah guide her. Ameen.
Well, it turned out that she and another of hubby’s colleague, whom H said we had run across in Albertson’s a few days ago (and said to hub that she thought he has 6 children – me included as one of his kids. Don’t know whether to take that as a compliment or insult, but I think I’ll take it as the former) were just done judging the baked goods for the youth. So we looked for the kids’ baked goods. Again, subhanallah, it seemed to be blue ribbon days for all of us! Alhamdulillah! H’s broken Pecan Shortbread Melts got a blue sticker!
N’s brownies got a blue (well, they had put yellow because they had run outof blue stickers) sticker!
And so did S’ Dixie Pixies!
H’s Double Chunk Choc Chip cookies got a red sticker! It was a multiple win!
And to think the kids had been reluctant to enter any baked goods in the fair when I suggested it. I had to coax them.
“Just enter. You guys bake a lot anyway. Why don’t you just enter. You never know, you might win.”
Alhamdulillah they did!
And to also think that I was quite iffy about entering anything either! Alhamdulillah I did end up making the Chiffon and Banana Cake. It was a Blur Ribbon day.
The only downside to all of this was that they were only going to put the baked goods on display later on that day, which meant that we were not going to see them displayed because we had to leave early. So I snapped pictures before we left. No blue ribbons. I guess blue and yellow stickers would just have to do!
We also didn’t get to hop on any rides in the Carnival because they won’t open till 5 pm that day. I emailed hubby, suggesting that he might want to go with the kids later on that day, and take pictures of the baked goods on display and so the kids could attend the carnival too, but at the mention that he’d have to pay for the tickets again, he said no. I figured as much, so unfortunately, the kids didn’t get to ride on any of the carnival rides. Alhamdulilllah either way.
Well, alhamdulillah for everything. I guess, we will continue to ‘dabble’ with the state fairs from now on. 12 years in the US and I never once bothered about state fairs. Interesting how 4H led us to it, and for our first involvement, it was a pretty good turn out! Walhamdulilah, wallahu akbar!
Ramadan Day 21: Al Baqarah 27
September 11, 2009 at 3:04 pm | In 4-H, Al Huda Institute, Family, Homeschooling, Kid Talk, Kids, Mothering, New Mexico, Quran, Ramadan | Leave a CommentI woke up to an incessant ringing of S’ alarm clock, a green one we had bought at Wal Mart for her (the kids stuff ar pretty much color coded : S green, N pink and H blue, and H claims that Z is orange. He said, “Even when from the moment you gave him tha name I know his color is orange!” (Don’t ask me, I have no idea how that came about)). Hubby had already gone to the masjid for qiyaam and had told me last night,
“Just wake up when the alarm clock rings a lot of times.”
They had left the alarm clock ringing for me yesterday while they had suhoor, because I had told them I wanted to still wake up even though I can’t pray.
So this morning, I woke up and made wudhu’, read some Quran and made dua. I thought I’d just wake the kids up later, so I could make dua in peace, and I’m glad I did that. Because, these kids, once they’re up, the house comes alive, no matter what hour it is. So after I was done, I woke H and S up. N is sick, still feverish, and she had to break her fast yesterday and she is not fasting today, so I left her alone.
“H, wake up for tahajjud. Hurry up, it’s almost five a clock.”
“So ummi, how do we pray?”
Last year, they prayed with me.
“Just pray two rakaah, and make dua a lot during sujud, you can prolong your sujud, and make dua after your prayer. You can also add two more rakaah, and two more.”
“Do we pray together or separately?”
“Either one.”
They prayed separately.
Baby Z, despite sleeping quite late last night (walking and scouring the room in the dark, kicking the door while laying on the floor, etc) woke up while S and H were eating their suhoor. I’ve never had a child this un-routineless before and it drives me crazy. Alhamdulillah ‘alaa kulli 7haal. I have to say it’s from my own doings though. He was following some routine before, but after we moved, his sleeping arrangements just got messed up. I had thought it was ok, but it is apparently not, at least not for my sanity.
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| Muhsin Khan: Those who break Allah’s Covenant after ratifying it, and sever what Allah has ordered to be joined (as regards Allah’s Religion of Islamic Monotheism, and to practise its legal laws on the earth and also as regards keeping good relations with kith and kin ), and do mischief on earth, it is they who are the losers. |
Today’s ayah furthers on the description of the faasiqeen that was mentioned in yesterday’s ayah.
What we learned:
3 descriptions of the faasiqeen :
- yanqudhoona ‘ahd allah min ba’di meethaqihi – break their covenant with Allah after ratifying it
- yaqTta’oona ma amarallahu an yoosSal – cut that which Allah has ordered to be joined
- yufsidoona fil ardh – create corruption on earth

- yanqudhoona : root noon qaf dhad – to break something that has been made firm, e.g. unravelling knitting, crochet, etc.

- yaQTta’oona; root qaf Tta ‘ain (S got this one even while I was reciitng the ayah): to cut
- YooSsal; root; wau Ssad lam – waSsal to join

- I suggested they diagram it all, and the end of it, for the faasiqeen is alkhaasiroon (losers).
- The faasiqeen break the covenant they made (we all made) with Allah way before (mentioned in Surah Al A’raaf) we were even born.
- They also sever what Allah has ordered to be joined such as family ties, rights of Allah, rights of people. Some examples would be not talking to a family member because of some disagreements, preventing people from pursuing Islamic education.
- And this leads to creation of corruption (fasad), and fasad is of two types: tangible and intangible. Logging would be an example of tangible fasad. Backbiting would be an example of intangible fasad.
“Would we then say thet loggers would go to Naar?” S asked.
“Well, not if they repent before they die,” I replied. And i continued.
“We can’t say for sure that these people, that person etc will go to Naar, because we don’t know if they will be guided later on.”
Yesterday we filled up their individual calendars with deadlines. This Ramadan has been extra busy for us because of 4-H deadlines. With the record book submission date looming, we’ve been forced to work under pressure. So yeesterday, I sat them down and told them I need them to set a deadline for some things, such as
- when they want to bake what they want to enter into the fair (trial run)
- when they will let me know what they have decided to bake for the fair
- when they will bake for the fair
- when they will have their projects done
and I gave them some deadlines too
Alhamdulillah it seems that S has gotten the hang of dealing with planners and deadlines. I remember not so long ago when I was griping about her inability to organize and remember when her homework was due. I think throughout last year, she has matured a lot alhamdulillah, and is quite reliable. Alhamdulillah. Next in line is N. Oh Allah, please help me with this one.
But hopefully having them fill out their own calendars will train them to learn how to plan things, watch out for deadlines, and stick to them. This tarbiyyah is truly mentally challenging. I’m beginning to feel the weight of it, subhanallah. And on top of that, there’s my own individual self to still do some improvements on too.
Welcome to 4-H Project Activities
September 8, 2009 at 2:55 pm | In 4-H, Art, Homeschooling, New Mexico, Projects, Sewing | Leave a CommentThere are so many terms in 4-H and even to this day, after asking questions so many times, again and again, I am still not ‘down with it’. This year, we’re somewhat ‘forced’ to pay attention to the state fair because in order for the kids to complete a 4-H project, they have to exhibit it in the fair. So here we are right now, scrambling to finish up their projects before Eid.
H chose to do the banner. S and N chose to do the frame. I was kind of expecting the girls to do the banner, but as I asked them again and again if, they keep shaking their heads. So, we went shopping at Hobby Lobby and Jo Ann to get their materials. Before that of course I had to do a lot of ‘researching’ about the state fair to see the requirements etc. Either way, now were’ at the stage of completing the project items, alhamdulillah.
I asked them to design how their embellished frames would look like, and banner too, so they don’t waste the materials and make undoable mistakes.
For H, we ended up googling for images of banners, and can you believe how difficult it is to come across any? I mean, we did come across some, but not the ones we had in mind. But we finally came across some nice ones on flickr and got some ideas for H’s. We also got some ideas if we want to make an Eid banner this year. Quite pretty too. Now it’s up to the girls to make them though. S didn’t seem to enthusiastic about it though.
We didn’t want to buy fabric, so I told H to choose one from the everlasting stash we’ve hoarded over the years. We had to buy some felt though, for his circles. For the clover, H used the heart stencils and made a cardboard template and then cut one out from a green fabric that used to be S’ flat bedsheet. Recycle, recycle.
H had to undo his stitches couple of time, and it quite frustrated him I think, but we got over that stage alhamdulillah.
Then we also had to look up how to do blanket stitches. In the beginning I tried to recall how to do it, but I forgot even how to start! So we went to S and asked her. She fumbled too, because when she did it, it was to sew the seams, not as a finishing edge. So, we googled it and found a video on Youtube. I showed H how to do it and then the took over. He intently connected all his circles and by Zuhr, he was done. Next step is to sew them on the banner.
As for S, she was experimenting on a mosaic design for her box frame top (upon my suggestion). 

S wanted to make a mosaic of the New Mexico state flag, but it turned out to be too tedious I suppose
N still hadn’t yet started, except for a design. It took quite a lot of work on my part too to oversee their projects! But it was quite fun. I think I derive energy from doing creative-based things. All the time, I reminded them that they still have to demonstrate something to the club, something related to the projects.
For now, H is going to demonstrate, possibly, how to do blanket stitches. S is going to demonstrate how to create a mosaic design, or how to stencil. And N is going to demonstrate how to create a four leafed clover from heart stencils.
As for me, I just want this to be over with because deep down I know they kids dno’t really like this Welcome to 4-H project, but the club leader had told me it was kind of a requirement if we want to be in the club (we had no choice because we enrolled late). I know the kids would have preferred to pick other projects they’re really interested in doing. So I kept telling them,
“That’s ok. Just let’s get this over with so next year you can choose projects that you really want to do.”
H was ready to quit, but I urged him on.
I think, getting them involved in 4-H would be good for their ‘homeschooling resume’ inshaallah, especially for colege applications, hopefully. Plus, it would hopefully also give them the experiences they wouldn’t normally get at home. For now, things are looking up in terms of their 4-H projects alhamdulillah. I hope next year will be better.
After this, I will probably be busy overlooking the completion of their individual record books. Alhamdulillah for that record book workshop on Oct 10. I hope we don’t miss that inshaallah.
Southern New Mexico State Fair
September 2, 2009 at 6:16 pm | In 4-H, Family, Kids, Mothering, New Mexico | Leave a CommentI’ve never been to a state fair before. I know. I’ve lived here for 12 years and I have never been to a state fair. So it struck me as news when my Malaysian friends who used to study here in the States told me they ate Churros at state fairs. The ‘conversation’ (if you can call exchanges on FB that) took place due to some photos of Churros I put up. I had made Churros few months back, for hubby’s Spanich class culture day and for a drop in guest.
This year though, I think we are ‘forced’ to attend one, due to the kids projects in 4-H. In order to complete a project, they have to exhibit them in the fair, among other requirements (some of which are doing demonstrations). So, like it or not, I found myself scrambling to learn and find information about how to go about doing this, and in the process, I learned many new interesting things. You always hear of blue ribbon recipes, and after talking to a 4-H extension county agent yesterday, I put two and two together. You enter your baked good in the fair, wait for the judging and if you win, you get , well you get whatever they give you (I didn’t really pay attention to this part yesterday because it was like a lightbulb was lit in my head and it overtook my attention span). Well, you can enter other than baked goods too of course, but I was completely excited by the fact that you can enter baked goods. After I was done talking to her, I told the kids rather excitedly that they can enter baked goods in the fair if they want. They have been baking a lot lately, and I have to say they’re pretty adept at it too mashaallah! Though, they do have to learn about some things such as not to spread frosting on a not yet cooled cake (this happened last week when they made brownies to bring to the community potluck).
For the kids, they have to enter their projects and we have yet to buy the materials needed to make their Welcome to 4-H banner and frames. Tomorrow inshaallah we will purchase them after Baby Z’s doctor appointment. Baby Z has been sick these past two weeks. Last weekend, we brought him to the doctor on Saturday and we saw a nurse practitioner who prescribed Pulmicort and Zithromaz. I was not wholly comfortable with her evaluation, especially with the Pulmicort because it is a steroid. And she told me to use it for a whole month too. The antibiotic, after I asked her again and again, she finally said to hold off on it unless he spikes a fever again.
My gut feeling has always been correct as a mother, with regards to my kids’ illnesses, and it’s scary how correct they are. So when I was reading the warning and extra information on Pulmicort (I always do this on any drugs/medicines we are told to take), I read,
Steroid can cause growth problems in some children and teenagers.
I already knew this, but reading this again made me hesitate. I know I am not well versed in medicine, but I also know my gut feeling has always been correct, and despite what some doctors may say, I, as a mother, have the right to make decisions, even if they are medical, for my children. Science is at most an educated guess.
So I had hubby call or talk to Baby Z’s allergist, who is a Muslim, thus he found him at the masjid during Sunday School. He teaches the boys sometimes. After talking to him, he told me to come to his office Monday. Alhamdulillah, the use of Pulmicort was unnecessary and completely does not make sense, according to him. However, Baby Z spiked a fever again, and Dr. K said that the crackling he heard in Baby Z’s lungs sound like the beginning of pneumonia. But since his oxygen is good, there was no need for hospitalization. They gave Baby Z a shot of antibiotic in the thighs, to which Baby squirmed a bit and began to cry, but didn’t. That is my Baby Z. Such a quiet boy he doesn’t even scream like a normal kid would in such situations. The nurse and even Dr. K took to him with such pity and love especially because he kept on the pouting face and glistening eyes but with nary a cry coming out of him. It hurt him, that was certain, but he didn’t cry. They gave him stickers and before long, he was smiling and waving bye bye.
He spiked a fever again late afternoon yesterdaym and this morning, his breathing was pretty labored, so I used the nebulizer while he was still sleeping. As soon as he woke up though, he was up and running as usual. Inshaallah, I hope this sickness goes away soon biizhnillah. His lungs are pretty predisposed not to pneumonia I guess. Qadr Allah. Alhamdulillah ‘alaa kulli 7haal.
So this year, we inshaallah will attend the Southern New Mexico State Fair, and if I am up to it, I may enter some baked goods!
Ag Day as 4-Hers
July 23, 2009 at 1:49 am | In 4-H, Animals, Desert life, Kids, New Mexico | 1 CommentI had signed whoever was interested in helping set up for Ag Day at the nearby elementary school, which was N and S. I had emailed E about it, asking her what time the girls should be there but she never replied, so even though I marked my calendar, I pretty much forgot about it.
On that day, we received H and M as usual, as their mother dropped them off around 8:30 a.m. for Iqra lessons with me. The Ag Day supposedly starts at 8 a.m. and if my girls were to help set up, they should probably have been there around 8. But it was not until 9 am that I suddenly remembered, and in a flurry of short bursts of,
“Hurry! You’re late!”
“Just go tell E she didn’t reply to my email!”
“Hurry! Get ready!”
“Just go!”
Since the school grounds is just across the arroyo from our backyard, H went out and came back inside exclaiming,
“I hear goats!”
“Ha! goats! Go!” I said.
So S and N dressed and walked to the school grounds, while the rest of us stayed finishing up the lessons.
“Let’s go, you all want to go?” I asked the kids. I still had four kids in the house (two of them were not mine).
Of course they wanted to go. So we went. It was the first time I walked to the school grounds, and oh my, what beautiful views I laid eyes on. The mountains far off in the distance. The streets lined with beautiful houses. It reminded me a lot of Damansara and Bangsar in Kuala Lumpur.
When we got there, the girls were with a group of adults and kids presenting their animals to the elementary kids enrolled in summer school. Ag Day, as i found out was designed as part of the extension office’s educational programs to the public. As the older and more seasoned 4-Hers introduced themselves and their respective animals they had brought to show, I witnessed my own child doing the same, with ease, even though she had no animal to show.
I stood behind them, and watched my firstborn introduce herself to the bunch of kids crowded around them. Well, well!
When I told them to go and hurry and get ready earlier, they were not too enthusiastic. Yet again, ‘Just listen to your mother’ proved true. They loved it.
“So what did you do when you got there?”
“We helped gave out the treat bags to the kids,” said N.
As there were excess, H, M, H, and Baby Z got treat bags too. Baby Z got to pet the duck, the rabbit, which I practically fell in love with such that I said to the kids,
“If we’re getting a pet, it will be a rabbit!”
the donkey named Spur, and the horse named Jesse.
We stayed at the playground for a bit while the kids enjoyed themselves on the swing. I was utterly captivated by the many hummingbirds buzzing past us. I tried to snap some pictures, but they were too quick. Subhanallah!
If I have to say one thing about living in New Mexico, it’s that it really brings you very close to Allah’s creations in a way you don’t get to in a city. Alhamdulillah!
It’s Spring Break!
March 29, 2009 at 1:15 am | In 4-H, Al Huda Institute, Animals, Desert life, Family, Gardening, Homeschooling, Mothering, New Mexico | Leave a CommentSpring Break. School holidays don’t usually mean much to us, because since we’re homeschooling, we go by our own ‘holidays’ which are basically the two Eids and some part of Ramadan. This week is Spring Break week. For the first time, I’m getting blasted with it as never before. For some reason, it actually means something to us, because our backyard is right across an elementary school. We can hear the bell, some announcements, and we can hear the shrieks, laughter and shouts of the kids at recess time. Since it’s Spring Break, it’s pretty quiet and you don’t hear the ding, dong and beep of the school anymore.
Plus, because it’s Spring Break, there are more programs available in the Museums in town for kids. We already missed the Boke Rodeo because I had failed to pre register them in a timely manner, but alhamdulillah today, the kids got to attend the Animal Encounter, held every fourth Saturday at the Museum of Natural History of Las Cruces, which is in the Mesilla Valley Mall, which is about 5 minutes drive away from our house. The animal on show to day was a colored lizard. All the kids touched it except H. Even Baby Z, to my surprise, touched it. I had thought that he wouldn’t touch it because he was afraid to touch the horse back in Columbus before, but I guess he has learned not to be fearful of touching animals, which is both a good and bad thing.
I also signed the kids up for the 4-H program. What I learned about it:
1. It requires high family involvement.
2. Parents are often disillusioned and think that it’s a drop and and pick up program. No, parents become project leaders in some cases.
3. It can be overwhelming especially because the parents are required to be highly involved.
It put me off a bit when I heard all the above, because obviously, I don’t need more things on my already full plate. But I thought to myself,
Put the kids first.
So I did. I envision myself running and driving around town for this, and actually actively participating in the meeting, maybe even volunteering to be a project leader at some point (though I would try to avoid this at all costs, considering I’m already teaching Sunday school, which in itself is a lot of work, believe it or not). What I like about 4-H is its focus on attaining leadership skills. So, ok, I’ll run around town if I need to. What else am I home for anyway?
However, since it can be overwhelming, the club leader I talked to suggested, highly recommended that the kids take the Welcome to 4-H project instead of branching off into their own projects in the first year. In the club, there are no other kids doing the projects my kids are interested in doing, so that essentially means that I, moi, ana, will be the one helping the kids in their individual projects, from beginning to end. No way! My plate will break under that weight. So, I agreed. S and N were willing enough to nod, but surprisingly, H refused.
Let’s just say that we went through a ‘Think about it’ then ‘You have to take this’ then You’re taking this’ process, In the end I used my veto power. I felt bad, but I think it had to be done. I’m going to be driving N and S around anyway, and H will be dragged along. It only makes sense that he’s in it too. The reason he refused was due to the leadership skills requirement. Because it was him, I went off and told him that if he wants to rattle off, it should be directed to a more beneficial outlet. In short, now all the kids are in 4-H. We’ll see how it goes inshaallah.
Today, at the Natural History Museum, I signed them all up for a 4 week program called Scaly Slimy, in which they will explore the lives of toads, snakes, and lizards. The fourth week, they will go on a field trip to the desert, the Chihuahuan Desert, to look for those desert animals. Yippes! I’m not too thrilled about these reptiles, but when you homeschool, you can’t be a scaredy cat. You have to go out there with your kids to explore the world. So yay snakes. I already saw a real life rattlesnake, well three of them to be precise, today at the museum. I hope I never ever see them anywhere outside those tanks/terrariums.
We went furniture shopping this morning and bought our living room set. We decided to only buy the living room set(couch, loveseat, and chair, no end tables or coffee table) brand new, and buy the rest used. We can wait until the semester ends and moving sales abound. Inshaallah. I also managed to get myself two chilli seedlings, which I have already transplanted into two big pots we bought last night. I am still without bird’s eyes chillies though. And I have yet to start planting lemongrass and other herbs I always use.
We also bought a waffle maker that was on sale, and so far, I have had fresh waffles made by S for more than one morning, alhamdulillah! I have a lot more work to do regarding the house, but I’ll take it bit by bit, as I alhamdulillah just completed and submitted my AlHuda Ramadan Course assignments this afternoon, before going to the mall. Now, all that is left for me to do is…everything else. Yay. I’m looking forward to my Spring Break.
On a Roll
March 25, 2009 at 1:23 am | In 4-H, Al Huda Institute, Art, Community, Family, Homeschooling, Kids, Mothering, Thoughts | 4 CommentsCarlsbad Caverns. Unfortunately, hubby can’t get a day off tomorow, so the kids can’t go, but, the brothers who invited us to go offered to take H on the trip in the case that hubby can’t go. So inshaallah, H is going tomorrow without us. I wasn’t going to go because I can’t afford to miss anymore TQ classes, so if hubby were to get the day off, they would have all gone without Baby Z and me. Alas, qadr Allah, only H will go inshaallah. Inshaallah at a better time, all of us can go.
We all went to the county extension office this afternoon. Hubby had a meeting with the county agent, and I wanted to sign the kids up for the 4-H program. We returned with a thick folder of information about the program, which I have yet to divulge in.
This morning, S and I continued the assembly of her new bed frame, a platform bed. Hubby had started on it last night, but since we were invited over to a Singaporean family’s house for dinner, he didn’t get to finish assembling it. I couldn’t just sit around. So I decided to take a go at it and assemble it myself, just so it’s over with. Not having pieces of wood all across the room helps gives me a sense of accomplishment too. Alhamdulillah with S and H’s (noisy) help, we managed to successfully assemble it. One down, three more to go. The other 3 kids are still on box springs with no frame. Alhamdulillah.
The kids have been back to creating things from scratch. Since we have an abundance of empty boxes lying around, they got into it, and created a row of Bots, which I will put up pictures of in another post inshaallah. While I was attending my TQ class, they tok their Bots out for a party in the backyard. The proof is in the pictures they took. Their Bots are actually adorable, mashaallah.
Last night, our Singaporean friend, gave Baby Z a bagful of toy cars and a huge stack of Winnie the Pooh books. This morning, I found H creating roads with the books for the cars.
“Don’t do that, H. Z is watching you. I don’t want him to treat books like that. If you want to make roads, use the cardboards. You can paint it or whatever.”
That set him off and before long, I had two kids out in the backyard with a few bottles of paint and ingenious creations as paintbrushes (since I had thrown away all the paintbrushes before the move). In a few hours, H brought in a cardboard based ‘highway’ for their toy cars. The sunshine here is so intense that it dried up in just a few hours. We utlized the heat to dry our clothes alhamdulillah. That saves our gas bill and energy that fits in with our attempt to go green. HUbby put up a temporary clothesline in the backyard, which is actually not enough for one load of laundry. But because the heat is so intense, I am able to hang out two batches of clothes to dry from one load. In a few hours, the first batch is dry and I am able to hang out the second batch. Inshaallah, when they’re back in stock, we’re going to buy the standing clothesline from Home Depot.
As for Baby Z and breastfeeding, he is wenaed, though not intentionally. AFter the move, my milk supply decreased especialy afterwe moved in the new house. Baby Z got sick, and after a while he just knew there wasn’t any milk left. He wouldn’t even suckle even though he keeps asking for it.
Let’s just say that it was emotional for me. I have been on a diet restrictions for almost 2 years, ever since we realized he was allergic to a lot of stuff. Now that I’m no longer breastfeeding, I can go back to eating the normal food, and I had thought that I would feel overjoyed by this, but fact is, I’m not. For one, it takes getting used to to remember that I can eat those food. I am so used to not being able to eat normal food that when I grocery shop, I still shop for me as well as for Baby Z. Now that I’m off the diet restriction, our grocery shopping bill should be less, alhamdulillah. But in truth, I feel like a traitor to Baby Z. I’m back to normal, and he’s still ’stuck’. As for the breastfeeding, I feel useless especially because he didn’t complete the two years. Short of one plus month. He is also now sleeping on his own bed. My baby is no longer a baby.
Though for the past few nights he has woken up in his bed crying such that we had to take him to our bed. But last night, he woke up, but didn’t cry. I have co-slept with him longer than I have with the other three. I had to separate the older three, and basically they stopped sleeping with me after the age one. But Baby Z, because of his allergies, has had ’special’ treatment. I didn’t know how I was going to separate him from our bed, but I didn’t worry too much about it. And subhanallah, it’s happening by itself. I stand 100% by the proponents of co-sleeping. I remember researching about infant sleeping for a SISTERS magazine article a while back, and at that time, I didn’t know how I’m going to fare with my co-sleeping baby, but from the literature I’ve read on co-sleeping, it is said that the child will eventually opt tp separate from the parents bed on his own. Subhanallah. It is true. Even though Baby Z woke up in the middle of the night crying, and we took him to bed with us, he seemed to be growing more independent on his own accord, with no ‘effort’ on my part. ALhamdulillah. Though I still yearn his babyness. Time goes by so quickly. Ahh…
As for the bigger kids, I have come to realize that I will be doing a lot more driving around in town after listening to the 4-H county agent tell me about the program. Club meeting once a month. Projects. ALhamdulillah this town is small. If it was in Columbus, I think I’d still be afraid to drive around unfamiliar places by myself with the kids. Alhamdulillah…I think I’ve entered a new stage in motherhood. Subhanallah. May Allah bless it with good and only good. Ameen.
4-H, Carlsbad Caverns
March 23, 2009 at 6:10 pm | In 4-H, Al Huda Institute, Animals, Community, Desert life, Family, Homeschooling, New Mexico, Travel | Leave a CommentI had looked this up when we were in Columbus, but for some reason I wasn’t moved to enroll the kids in it. Here, hubby’s job deals indirectly with it, since he’s in extension, and 4-Hs around the country is part of the extension program, or at least handled somewhat by the extension. So huby was the one who brought it up.
Meanwhile, I had fished out potential programs, classes the kids could enroll in around here, and there seems to be an abundance of classes and programs, mashaallah! Alhamdulillah. I spent one whole morning filling out our google calendar with homeschooling activities and events. The Museum of Natural History is right in the mall which is about just a few minutes away from our house. There are lots of museums here that offer classes for kids and adults alike, mashaallah.
One thing I noticed here is that astronomy is a big thing. And I can see why. The skies are usually very clear. That is one thing I love about it here. You can see the moon, the stars, the planets and of course feel the sun because of the clear skies.
Desert animals. We were just enlightened by our new friends here about some desert animals that make their appearance in summer. Rattlesnakes is one of them. Tarantulas too. It is getting hot now, and it’s not even summer yet. Subhanallah.
Alhamdulillah though, our living room is all tidied up because we have bought bookcases. So now our books are not sitting on the living room floor anymore. The sunroom houses the kids’ books on our old white shelves and the living room houses my books on our 3 new 5 shelf bookcases.
Hubby had filled out the 4-H enrollment forms, and last night, the kids and I explored the available projects 4-H program offers. Even I went ga ga over the projects.
S wants to do the Horse Science I. N couldn’t make up her mind as to which one she wants because she’s interested in multiple projects, namely the Cat I: Purr-fect Pals, Ceramics, New Mexico Flavor, Baking I, Entomology Unit I, Ice Cream, and Wood & Tools I . As for H, his interest lies in Wood and Tools I, Basic Model Rocketry Unit I, and General Shooting Sports.
I have yet to speak to a county agent, as I have some questions about the program, that wasn’t addressed on the website. As of now I’m waiting for the agent to get back to me after the call I made this morning.
H and N are supposed to enroll in a class, Bike Rodeo, offered by the Las Cruces Railroad Museum tomorrow, but I failed to pre register them earlier and when I called this morning, they said that if I can get 3 kids, then they can add them on, but as of yet, I can’t find one more kid to enroll. S is too old for that particular class. H really wants to take this class, but alas..qadr Allah.
I have yet to get really up to date and organized with things. I have been playing catch up with my missed AlHuda classes, preparing for the Sunday school (which turned out quite ok for an experiment, alhamdulillah) and settling down in the house. The Sunday school class didn’t turn out as how I had planned, alhamdulillah ‘ala kulli haal. I managed to do letter pronunciation, after which I had one group do the diagram of heavy and light letters while I sit with another group and check their reading and recitation. I lost track of time and we didn’t get to do the tafseer after all. I had prepared to do tafseer from Tafseer Ibn Kathir for Surah al Haqqah ayat 1-12, and it has benefited me a lot alhamdulillah. Though of course with the Quran, you still feel like it’s not enough. It would be much much nicer if you can get a scholar right in front of you teaching you tafseer, as there is a lot to tafseer, as I also realized from my AlHuda classes so far. Even one word can give you many dimensions to ponder and reflect on subhanallah.
I may do istikharah on teaching tafseer, as I had received a warning about teaching it, alhamdulillah. May Allah guide me and all of us to the straight path. Ameen. Since it’s spring break, there will be no Sunday school next weekend, alhamdulillah.
Last night, our van broke down and hubby and H was sent back home by a brother. So we are now without transportation, alhamdulillah ‘ala kulli haal. EVen if I were to get a third child to enroll in the Bike Rodeo class, I most probably won’t be able to drive them to the class if the van is not fixed up by tonight.
Hubby told me that we are invited to go to Carlsbad Caverns by some brothers and one other family this coming Wednesday. Since I have Taleem Quran class and group conference call, I think I will pass and the kids can just go with hubby, except for Baby Z. I was about to email the class coordinator informing her I would be going out of town on Wednesday thus missingthe class, but I am already behind in the classes I have missed due to the move. I don’t think I can afford to miss more classes, and on top of that, miss the group conference call. More cathing will just ensue and I just want to get over with catching up as soon as possible.
Just a while ago, we looked at the efieldtrip, in which we learned about some formation in the cave, alhamdulillah. Hubby said he is able to get the day off, and will inshaallah go with the kids to Carlsbad Cavern. I told the kids to take pictures. One thing about travelling in New Mexico that we found out last night, is that it’s advisable to bring your passports along. Something about police checking up on people to make sure they’re not illegals. You do learn something new everyday. Subhanallah.
I wish I can go, but maybe inshaallah another time. I’m not too attracted to the idea of descending 750 feet underground anyway, but I would like to go either way. Regardless, the trip is more for the kids, so, alhamdulillah.
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